All Things Gall

Let the Cooking Begin!

2011-11-18T10:58:00.002-06:00

With Sunday's fellowship meal (held weekly at our church), Rich's birthday, and Thanksgiving all within the next 7 days, I have plenty of cooking to do this week! I'm so thankful for refrigeration, so I can make things ahead of time. It really takes careful planning to have multiple items baking and simmering and chilling, but it's a real joy to me to cook and taste and share delicious food, to experience the blessing that comes with feasting and fellowshiping with loved ones. Today's advance cooking includes mashed potatoes (to be served as a casserole with lots of sour cream and cheese!), dinner rolls, French bread, and cranberry sauce.

So glad the kids can entertain themselves so well! From the sound of it, they're enjoying some rowdy make-believe upstairs right now!

Let's Be Thankful!

2011-11-16T09:52:00.003-06:00

Can't believe it's almost Thanksgiving! This week at the Gall house we're focusing on thankfulness, taking time each day to thank the Lord for specific blessings. While those of the secular American culture can only feel a generic thankfulness, or gladness over the good things they enjoy, we Christians can offer personal, heartfelt gratitude to a personal, abundant God! From Him all blessings flow, from Him comes every good and perfect gift. I want to teach my children to be thankful, for thankful hearts will be less apt to complain or envy -- two attitudes which strongly characterize American society of late, I'm afraid.

Today's prayers of thanks:
Olivia: the trees, plants, grass, pretty blue sky, pretty houses, people
Zander: the Bible, friends to play with
Eleanor: grandmas and grandpas
Alaina: a warm house, beautiful music, Zander's learning to play the violin

Encouraging Advice for Moms with Little Ones

2011-04-16T08:19:00.000-05:00

http://www.beckypliego.com/2011/04/children-in-kitchen-teaching-doctrine.html

Great Encouragement for the Christian Woman

2011-04-11T09:06:00.002-05:00

This blog was referred to me by a friend. Great words of wisdom and encouragement here, that I heartily recommend to my Christian friends!

Spring!

2011-04-06T21:09:00.004-05:00

After a very snowy winter, spring has finally arrived in Minnesota. Irises, tulips, and fuzzy tips of strawberry plants are poking through the soil around the house. The giant snowbanks, once several feet high, are reduced to a small icy pile in the shaded corner of the yard. As we head out on our walk down to Como Lake, we see dozens of people enjoying the same activity, some with strollers, many with dogs. We all feel reborn, like the tulip spears, emerging gladly into the sunlight.

The kids and I love taking walks, especially down to the lake, where a paved path takes us past a scenic point of land that juts out into the lake, allowing walkers a closer look at the water and waterfowl. We call this mini-peninsula "The Point." The children love finding rocks to throw into the water, and could spend half an hour at this activity if allowed. A little further down the shoreline is a spot with benches, and large boulders separating the paved path from the water. These boulders are more fun to climb on than a playground jungle gym, and although mommy has to be vigilant, this is another essential scenic stop in our tour around the lake.

The third place where the kids enjoy playing is near the large white pavilion on the west side of the lake. A man-made waterfall and pond, with a bridge, is set into a man-made hillside, with boulders and coniferous shrubs giving it a vaguely western feel. People like to have pictures taken in this spot. I've seen bridal parties, high school students, and wetted-and-combed little tykes being posed by a photographer at various points around the waterfall and tiered pond. It is quite pretty; but my kids only see this attractive spot as another opportunity to climb around and collect things like pine cones. I'm all for it! In the city there aren't lots of opportunities and locations to get out into nature; but this is a glimpse and a taste that they never tire of. And I'm glad to see Zander, Olivia and Eleanor all exhibiting a love of the outdoors and a wonder at nature's beauty. I hope this carries on through their childhood and beyond, just as it has for me. And with the milder spring weather upon us, I trust we'll take every chance we can to get out in the fresh air and watch the waves and clime some rocks!

First Visit to the Park

2011-03-21T14:01:00.004-05:00

When the temps reached 50 degrees last week, we had to walk down to the park to enjoy the fresh air and sunshine!

Trials into Thanksgiving

2011-03-15T18:36:00.002-05:00

Trials seem to come in groups. The trials of a stay-at-home mom of young children may seem small in the grand scheme of thing. When I consider the catastrophe of Japan's recent earthquake and tsunami -- the devastation that ruined whole cities and claimed thousands of lives -- my trials of dealing with toddler messes and tantrums seem insignificant.

But they are trials, nonetheless. Don't tell a mom that finding all the children's clothes dumped and scattered; discovering that someone has peed in the bagless vacuum chamber; breaking up the tenth fight; endlessly reminding and disciplining; and cleaning out poopy underwear aren't trials!

I'm thankful God is with me in my trials. Even in the gross, mundane, vulgar things that fill my day, God's Spirit is within me, reminding me of God's Word, giving me the power to react calmly and thankfully to my circumstances. Not that I always do this, sad to say. Sometime I give in quite happily to the temptation to complain, yell, accuse, or self-pity. But God's grace is always there for me to take hold of, to shield me from a sinful reaction to my difficulties, or to help me repent when I fail. And His grace helps me to turn complaining into gratitude, and weariness into confidence in God.

"O Lord, you are the portion of my inheritance and my cup;
you maintain my lot.
The lines have fallen to me in pleasant places;
yes, I have a good inheritance." Psalm 16:5-6

Back in Action! (For Now...)

2011-02-23T15:13:00.002-06:00

Wow, it's been over a year since I've posted on All Things Gall. A busy year, full of family activity and the changing and growing of three young children. Each of the kids had a birthday last fall: Eleanor turned 2 in September, Olivia turned 4 in October, and Zander turned 6 in November. We continue to make a cozy home in the house we bought over 2 1/2 years ago, and with the end of winter (hopefully) in sight, thoughts of spring yard work begin to filter through our minds. We have plans to expand the garden and plant more vegetables and flowers this year. Last year's garden was small, but it did well -- especially the tomatoes! This year I'd like to have the kids help a bit with the planting and tending of the garden; they love being outside and I think would enjoy any excuse to dig in the dirt!

God has been good to us in the past year, and I look forward to what He will do in our lives in this coming year, and what little adventures our family will undertake with the changing seasons. I can make no promise that I'll contribute faithfully to this blog, but I hope All Things Gall will again be a place to catch up on the news and photos and anecdotes of our little family. We shall see...!

Eating Icicles at the Park

2010-01-13T14:49:00.003-06:00

The frigid temperatures that descended upon Minnesota at the start of the month have relinquished their grasp, and a succession of mild, sunny days have put a spring in our step, and enabled me to bundle up the kids for an outing to the park. Pulling the girls in the yellow sled , I strolled along the snow-trodden sidewalk, with Zander scampering about, sometimes ahead of us, sometimes behind, plopping down occasionally to scoop up snow for tasting or lobbing at a squirrel. It felt so good to breathe the fresh air and feel the sun on my head, and the gleaming snow was picturesque. Such pleasant winter days can be few and far between here, and thus are the more heartening and enjoyable. At the park we slid around on the ice rink for a bit, then went to the playground where the kids climbed around looking for icicles to lick. It was good seeing them play and expend all that energy -- and needless to say, they slept very well that night!

Gall Christmas

2010-01-04T17:38:00.002-06:00

Linde Clan Christmas

2010-01-04T17:16:00.003-06:00

Christmas Morning

2009-12-03T14:30:00.005-06:00

Zander Plays "Athabasca Monkey"

2009-12-03T14:25:00.003-06:00

It's late in coming, but here's a picture of Zander playing his first recital solo, on November 21. He started violin lessons last summer, and now he's progressed to playing the notes of the A-scale (on the A and E strings). He plays with such a look of concentration -- it's so cute to watch! He's doing a great job, and we're proud of him.

Zander Turns 5!

2009-11-11T12:38:00.004-06:00

Zander turned five on November 6, and we celebrated with his friends on Saturday. The party was vaguely "dinosaur" themed, involving a hunt for plastic dinosaurs and a rather sad attempt at a sauropod-shaped cake. (It was recognizable, but did not warrant a photograph for this blog.) The weather turned out to be so gorgeous that day, though, that the kids mostly ran around outside, saving me the trouble of organizing further dinosaur activities -- the usual party games tweaked to fit the theme (pin-the-tail-on-the-T-rex, for example). The highlight of the party was a pinata that Zander had made with the help of his grandma Pam (with further assistance from Rich and me). All the boys loved getting a chance to whack at it, and of course the birthday boy ultimately gave it the fatal blow, followed by the candy scramble.

So the party turned out well. Zander felt duly honored, and now he's enjoying the several presents he received. I'm proud and amazed that I have a 5-year-old already -- and such a good kid at that!

The Princess and Ninja

2009-11-04T14:18:00.002-06:00

Halloween 2009

Another Milestone

2009-11-02T15:05:00.003-06:00

Eleanor has started walking! She took her first faltering steps last Thursday evening, and each day has grown in confidence and distance. It's so darling to see her toddle slowly across the room. She still plops on her bottom a lot, but her ear-to-ear grin reveals how proud she is when she makes it several feet, to the accompaniment of our cheers.

Autumn Art

2009-10-29T17:07:00.003-05:00

My mom and a few sibs spent the afternoon here, and helped the kids create pumpkin pictures with construction and tissue paper, and watercolors. The kids had a blast and turned out some pretty artwork (with a little assistance). We also made pumpkin cupcakes with delicious cream cheese frosting. Like the last leaves lingering on the trees, these cupcakes will not stick around for very long!

Fall Fun

2009-10-20T13:24:00.006-05:00

In the leaf pile out front

(Zander took this one. Not too bad!)

I took these 3 pics while we were on a walk in September. We went through a lovely arboretum not far from us, and the fall flowers were gorgeous. But my kids were even sweeter to photograph. :)

We went to an apple orchard a couple weeks ago with my mom and brother Ian. We picked a bag of Sweet Sixteen apples (enjoying the fragrant air and sunshine), and the kids got to play in the John Deere tricycle yard afterward.

(Living on the edge)

Lovely view from the orchard

Enjoying the fruit of our labors later on.

Olivia's Tea Party

2009-10-06T16:19:00.004-05:00

My Livy turned three yesterday -- she's getting so big! I hosted a tea party for her, with both grandmas and Aunt Grace joining our family at the table. I served deviled eggs, shortbread with lemon curd, fruit, cheese and crackers, and mini cupcakes. The table was set with china, and all of us were "dressed up" in our finest afternoon tea attire. Olivia was thrilled by the attention, and the food, and sipping tea from the fancy cups. We had fun watching her!

Illuminating Video

2009-09-29T12:07:00.002-05:00

Here is a fantastic talk given by Doug Wilson at the Desiring God conference this past weekend. The conference, entitled "With Calvin in the Theater of God," honored the life and work of God's servant John Calvin at the 500th anniversary of his birth. All the conference sessions are on the Desiring God website, and I recommend them as a way to learn about this important figure in church history and to be encouraged in the goodness and wisdom of the Lord, as He is glorified through the faithful writings of Calvin.

Simple Gifts

2009-09-22T11:26:00.000-05:00

I am delighted by my children's enjoyment of simple pleasures: reading stories, walks to the park, playing in the dirt, building forts. These activities seem to be wired into kids -- I remember enjoying such pursuits myself. And sure, special outings, and movies, and parties get my children excited, and they'll talk of nothing else following a highly sensory experience at a waterpark or friend's birthday party. But during the daily routine, the simple, creative pursuits seem to bring them the greatest satisfaction.

One aspect of enjoying simple pleasures is a love of nature. All my kids love being outside, and Zander and Livy take great delight in watching animals, pointing out every scampering squirrel, every alighting bird they observe while on a walk. And they love to collect things! Flowers, pebbles, acorns, feathers, we always return home with a handful worth stashed in the stroller basket. Yesterday I pointed out a fallen red leaf to Livy, and then had to pause with a chuckle as she darted to and fro over the grass, crouching to collect each scarlet leaf she spotted.

I'm not one to come down hard on electronic toys and entertainment (perhaps to my discredit); but I am thankful to observe the intrinsic connection my kids have with God's creation, which I had as a youngster, and which seemed to belong to every previous generation. The statistics regarding children and electronic entertainment and childhood obesity are bad. But whenever I see my kids, or any other child, playing house or exclaiming over a flock of geese, I think to myself that, despite ourselves and the culture we live in, their ability to imagine and to appreciate nature is not completely ruined. These simple gifts are built into them, I believe. We moms and dads just need to be sure we cultivate, rather than stifle, them.

Happy Birthday, Eleanor!

2009-09-18T08:42:00.001-05:00

Our youngest turns one today! We celebrated yesterday with our families, and Eleanor ate her first chocolate birthday cake and received new (not previously used/stained/worn out by older siblings!) clothes, board books, and toys. Eleanor seemed to have fun, and received her due share of birthday kisses.

Getting Saucy

2009-09-14T11:42:00.000-05:00

I canned tomato sauce for the first time on Saturday. It went pretty well, all things considered, but the challenge was juggling all the cooking pots between four burners, and keeping enough water boiling to blanch the tomatoes, sterilize the jars, and seal them (in addition to the couple hours of simmering the tomato sauce). I'm thankful that Rich's parents took the kids for the afternoon, so I didn't have little ones underfoot with all that hot water. I'm proud of what I accomplished, but not entirely convinced it was worth the effort. I'd want to work out a more efficient method, I think, if I attempt canning next year, which would probably include adding a third large pot. (And a second stove?) :p But at least we'll get to enjoy the fruits of my labor several times in the coming months!

I'd welcome feedback from others, too. Is there a good (better) way to tackle boiling water bath canning?

I love my flower gardens!

2009-08-30T16:49:00.001-05:00

Tomato Harvest, Part 1

2009-08-30T16:46:00.001-05:00

A Week at the Lake

2009-08-12T08:32:00.000-05:00

We enjoyed a refreshing week at Blue Lake, Minn., last week. We stayed in a large, comfortable cabin together with Rich's family, and pleasantly whiled the hours with fishing, swimming, canoeing, napping, reading, playing games, and eating yummy cabiny food. It was lovely having such a change of pace -- no computer or cell phones or appointments. Just family time and fresh air.

Most of these photos were taken by Rich's dad -- he was good at documenting all the fun!

Sunny Shores on Blue Lake is owned by a lovely Christian couple. Blue Lake is near lake Roosevelt, north of Mille Lacs a bit.

Zander with Uncle Tom

Livy with Aunt Anna

The kids with Aunt Kelly and Uncle Tom's head

An excellent opportunity to catch up on sleep!

Zander is holding Evie, the kids' 6-week-old cousin

With Grandpa and Grandma!

Death and Fame

2009-06-26T10:13:00.000-05:00

Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett both died on June 25th. There's something astonishing about famous people suddenly being no more. Fame (especially the kind that roots someone so deeply in the cultural bedrock) creates a feeling of immortality, I suppose. Certainly Jackson and Fawcett will be remembered for a long time. But it makes me wonder... does the death of a celebrity give Hollywood denizens pause for thought? Do music stars and TV celebrities wonder about death and afterlife when one of their own is taken? Will musing on God and eternity ever lead a megastar on the path to Jesus Christ? By the Holy Spirit, it will. Nothing is impossible for God.

Young Musician

2009-06-24T14:41:00.000-05:00

This week Zander has started violin lessons with Mrs. Osterhouse from our church. The young beginners class, five youngsters in all, meets for group lessons each day this week; then the students will have one private and one group lesson per week through July. I think Zander is enjoying it so far. He has learned how to stand, how to hold the violin and grip the bow, and is learning pizzicato, or plucking the strings. In addition, he's learning simple rhythm exercises and pneumonics for the string notes. I get a kick out of watching him staring intently at the violin as he attempts pizzicato. I think he's off to a great start -- he could be a natural!

Guess it must be summer...

2009-06-05T17:13:00.000-05:00

A Short Vacation

2009-06-03T12:23:00.000-05:00

Last week I took a mini-vacation, traveling to visit my South Carolina friends, Kim and Joffre, and their four kids. Eleanor traveled with me, and we flew down there a week ago, staying until June 1. I really enjoyed seeing them again. Rich and I met Joffre and Kim during our tenure in Moscow, Idaho (location of Rich's alma mater, New Saint Andrews). We hit it off, and have happily stayed in touch ever since moving away from Moscow.

Last time I saw Kim, she had a brand-new baby girl. Now Renata is five, and big sis to three active brothers. The youngest, Ward, shares Eleanor's exact birthday; they spent a lot of time sitting together on the floor waving their hands in one another's face, seemingly attempting to gouge out each other's eyes. They remained largely unscathed, however.

The highlights of the trip for me were the opportunities Kim and I had just to chat and comiserate and encourage one another over our similar phase of life. A family outing to downtown Greenville, including a stroll through the beautiful riverfront park, was also a fantastic time. I also experienced some uniquely Southern things:

Driving past lush magnolia trees laden with their large white flowers.
Eating at Chick Fil-A -- definitely the best-tasting fastfood chicken around :)
Viewing the gravestones of former Confederate soldiers in the local graveyard.
Flying over the Great Smokies.

I'm glad I was able to visit that part of the country (for the first time) and reconnect with our friends. It was a delightful time!

Great Deals on Theological Books

2009-05-01T15:48:00.000-05:00

Want to learn more about the Bible? Church history? The biblical picture of marriage? The reformed view of baptism? Want to find theological paperbacks on these topics for a steal of a price? I receive the email newsletter for Canon Press, and today's issue announced a special sale to help move merchandise and make room for new books. I have found the Canon Press books to be deep yet easy to read; thought-provoking but not preachy. Check out the website for more info on books available for $1, $2, and $3 each.

St. George's Feast

2009-05-01T11:16:00.000-05:00

A couple weeks ago, our church celebrated St. George's Feast, St. George being, of course, he who slew the dragon. Being Protestant, we don't typically observe saints' days, but it gave us a good excuse to create a feast day, a day of fellowship, eating, and playing together. Plus, if ever there was a legendary (if somewhat mythological) Christian figure to remember and honor, it is Saint George who embodied courage, compassion, kindness, and true manliness. (Not to mention representing a dragon-slayer Christ-figure, as the Lord slays the Dragon in Revelation.)

The party was hosted by our friends, the Abens family, who live on a hobby farm, and so have lots of outdoor space, as well as horses, cows, dogs and cats, all available for petting by animal-enamored children. While there, the adults enjoyed fellowshiping around tables and a bonfire, and playing Ultimate Frisbee. Among the activities that especially appealed to the kids were jumping inflatables and horseback rides. (I have to admit I tried out those activities, too, but I had an excuse, you see. I was helping my 2-year-old.) Zander and Livy had a great time, and would hardly stop their play to eat supper -- but the Cheetos, pickles, and chocolate cupcakes gave them pause. Final word: A great time was had by all!

Zander felt perfectly at ease in the saddle.

Livy couldn't keep away from the animals. They couldn't get away from her.

Livy rode with my youngest brother Ian, who accompanied us to the Feast.

Upright Eleanor

2009-04-06T12:52:00.000-05:00

Eleanor is sitting up on her own! (Oh, what a big girl! ) Can't resist these photos.

Eleanor is 6 Months Old!

2009-03-18T10:29:00.001-05:00

Underwater Adventure

2009-02-06T14:18:00.001-06:00

No one has the imagination and artistry of God! The kids and I enjoyed admiring some of His handiwork yesterday when we went to the Underwater Adventures Aquarium at the Mall of America. We walked (or rode the moving walkway) in the tunnel beneath the aquarium, while overhead and alongside us, on the other side of the glass, swam all kinds of amazing fish, turtles, and sharks. Yes, real sharks! And stingrays, starfish, coral, tropical fish of all kinds, sea turtles... so many colorful marine creatures (some very beautiful, and some quite ugly!), all declaring the glory of God and pointing to a wonderful Creator who gives us wonders to behold. I forgot my lovely camera, so had to make due with my cell phone, but at least I got a few pictures from the aquarium.

Alas, doesn't do justice to the beautiful colors of the aquatic plants and creatures!

Dude...

This guy was big, about 18 in. long

This ray was swimming right overhead

Hard to tell, but this knobby blob is an octopus. Wish I could've got all his tentacles in the picture -- although, he was kind of curled up in the corner of his tank, anyway.

The Perfect Mommy Workout

2009-01-06T15:24:00.000-06:00

I’m sure the most common New Year’s resolution is “to get in shape,” or “to lead a healthier lifestyle.” This may have something to do with a growing revulsion to rich food following the holiday porking out season; or to the increased resemblance (particularly up here in the sunless North) we have to well-fed polar bears. Whatever the motivation, we like to take advantage of the "New Year/new leaf" idea.

But what mom of young children has time to go work out? In my stage of life, it’s hard enough fitting in 20 minutes of DVD Pilates! So I’ve developed some exercises that can be inserted into the daily routine. Whether you’re cleaning, cooking, or caring for kids, doing these moves with good form will bring about that fit and toned body you always wanted! (Well, maybe.) And you won’t have to dedicate additional time, which you don’t have, to your exercises!

Cardio
1. Stairs. A great way to get the heart pumping, especially if you’re carrying something like a laundry basket. For added benefit, occasionally forget something that you need upstairs or in the basement, so you can make those extra trips.
2. Walking or biking to the park, or in the winter, pulling a sled to the sledding hill.
3. Dancing around the living room trying to sooth that fussy baby.

Lower Body
4. Squats. What mom doesn’t spend half her day picking things up off the floor? Just turn the movement into a useful squat – bend your knees and push back that patootie while you reach for those socks or Matchbox cars.
5. Plies. A great exercise to shape the thighs, this is a perfect move for the mom who wears a young one in a front pack or sling. Like the squat, it can be used when picking up things from the floor, like the Nuk my baby is forever spitting out of her mouth. Turn your feet out like a dancer and gracefully lower down. Also use this move when picking up your small children.
6. One-foot bounce. Standing on one leg, use the other foot to rock or bounce the baby in his carrier or bouncy chair. Switch legs occasionally. This move strengthens the legs and improves balance.
7. Calf raises. Bobbing up and down on your toes works well while standing at the sink or counter.
8. Leg raises. When you’re crawling around on all fours, trying to fish something out from under the bed, take a minute to straighten your leg to the back, and lift and lower the foot to work the gluteous maximus. Switch legs. As an alternative, to work the hips, lift and lower your bent knee to the side. Try not to think of a dog marking his territory.

Upper Body
9. Over-the-head lifting. A mom with a baby hardly needs additional bicep work! But if you want to firm up your arms and shoulders, try keeping heavy things, like cookbooks and canned goods, up high.
10. Push-ups. While playing with the children on the floor, throw in a dozen of these. For added challenge, let the kids climb on you as you attempt the exercise.
11. Cook with cast-iron. Use those biceps to heave your skillet onto the stove.
12. Scrub the floor or wash windows. Move your arms vigorously!

Don’t Forget to Stretch Out
13. Sit on the floor with your legs stretched in a V. Fold laundry and make piles at varying distances and angles.

In addition to these exercises, eat well and drink lots of water! Hopefully your energy level will improve and you'll find yourself stronger and more flexible...to deal with motherhood's little problems.

Kids' Christmas Photo

2008-12-30T17:27:00.000-06:00

Starring Eleanor!

2008-12-30T17:24:00.001-06:00

Christmas Morning

2008-12-30T17:02:00.000-06:00

Christmas Smiles

2008-12-03T16:06:00.001-06:00

Deck the Halls

2008-12-03T15:33:00.000-06:00

I love decorating for Christmas, and while I'm not the greatest at it, I sure had fun decking out our new house. The fireplace mantle is especially fun to trim with lights and garland, for a cozy old-fashioned look. And yes, we will hang stockings on Christmas Eve!

Faithful Teaching

2008-12-01T14:22:00.000-06:00

When you hold a precious newborn in your arms, admiring the tiny fingers and toes and the plump cheeks, and your heart melts over their innocence and helplessness, it's hard to fathom that they have a sin nature. I know I've thought that with each of mine. Then they reach the age (not too long) when they can put out a good squall, and arch their backs in anger or petulance. Then you think, yeah, there's some of that original sin peeking out. But it's when the young tyke first throws a tantrum along with his bowl of squash that you know, without a doubt, here's a little sinner on the path to destruction.

Thankfully, in God's mercy and providence, He gives Christian parents the tools to instruct children in righteousness, and the promise that it is Christ himself who begins and completes that work in each of us. Even when we're tempted to doubt that our teaching is getting through to our young ones, we need to trust God that the seed being planted will yield a harvest.

I had an encouragement along these lines today, when the kids and I were playing at the rec center down the street for "tot time." With the cold weather limiting outdoor play, a large gym with balls and bikes is a welcome diversion for stay-at-home parents, and a great outlet for preschoolers' pent-up energy. The gym was crowded today, so I stood off to the side with Eleanor while Zander and Olivia ran around.

After a while, one of the dads that we've seen there several times, whose older son plays with Zander, came over to me and said, "Zander's been talking theology with me over there."

This was a surprising comment. "Really?"

"Yeah, he was telling me all about God, and how he created the world and makes it rain or snow."

I was thrilled, and I laughed. "Oh, good!"

"You must take your kids to Sunday school," he remarked, and gave me a thumbs up. "Way to go. My kids go to Sunday school, too." With that, he wandered away, and I remained standing there with a smile on my face.

Now I know that that those little moments I take to teach the kids biblical truths are paying off. My four-year-old knows that God created the world, and he's not afraid to share that with others. What a reason to be glad!

Giving Thanks

2008-11-30T10:55:00.000-06:00

We had a lovely family get-together for Thanksgiving, gathering at Rich's aunt and uncle's home in Red Wing. We always enjoy hanging out with Rich's family, including parents, siblings, cousins, etc. There's a lot of laughter and good-natured teasing with that bunch; and this year included some tender and amusing reminiscences of Grandpa and Grandma Roelofs, who are with the Lord now, but who were the heart of family gatherings for so many years. Even though I knew them only ten years or so, I grew to love and appreciate them as one of the grandchildren, and our endearing memories of them are one of the blessings I'm thankful for this year.

Other things I am thankful to the Lord for include my husband and his faithful labor to provide for our family; my children, who bring laughter and the opportunity to grow in wisdom and patience; my extended family and friends, who bring great joy and fellowship; our lovely home, now decked out for Christmas; and good food to eat every day. There are many, many more blessings I am grateful for, too, but most especially for the love and mercy of the Lord Jesus Christ. I pray that this particular blessing will flow out through our family this Christmas season to those around us.

It is good to be specific in our thankfulness to God, as Pastor Doug Wilson points out on his blog. This is a nice reflection and exhortation he gives; although Thanksgiving Day is past, check out his post. It's good to be reminded still to give thanks for our blessings - and to carry out that thankfulness with actual words of gratitude to God.

It's Not About the Presents

2008-11-25T08:33:00.000-06:00

I had to chuckle and agree with this Star Tribune columnist's take on the Christmas "retail slump." Yeah, it's too bad that the closed-purse, tight-fisted habits of this year's consumers only encourage the general economic downturn. But my personal opinion is that Americans could probably benefit from a bit of spending self-discipline; benefit from a little less emphasis on materialism and consumerism during the time we should be joyfully celebrating Christ's birth and enjoying family time. Focusing more on the "We" around the Christmas feast table than the "Wii" (or lack thereof) under the Christmas tree, you know what I mean?

The Pirate and the Butterfly

2008-11-06T13:35:00.000-06:00

Way Down Yonder in the Pumpkin Patch

2008-10-26T08:35:00.000-05:00

The temperature is dropping, signifying the approach of cold, dismal November days. But last week we had a string of mild, sunny days, and we spent one afternoon enjoying the weather at an apple orchard and pumpkin patch. Zander, Olivia, Eleanor and I met up with my mom and three youngest siblings at Pine Tree Apple Orchard. We meandered through rows of heavily-laden trees, whose boughs were bent to the ground with Haralsons, McIntoshes, Paula Reds, and Granny Smiths. We inhaled the sweet scents and basked in the sunshine. (Up here in Minnesota, you really have to enjoy the final days of pleasant weather before hibernation!) The children ran through the corn maze and helped choose a couple pumpkins, which we will carve into Jack-o-lanterns this week. Unfortunately we couldn't pick our own apples, but I did buy a bag of Cortlands, which are tangy sweet with crisp white flesh, and they have that je ne sais quoi of a fresh orchard apple, picked in the peak of autumn. We always eat a lot of apples this time of year!

One-Month-Old Pics

2008-10-26T08:22:00.000-05:00

When Eleanor turned one month on the 18th, I naturally had to take some photos to mark her progress! (And record her cuteness.)

Birthday Pics

2008-10-13T22:39:00.000-05:00

Olivia turned 2 on October 5, and we celebrated with donuts for breakfast, and a visit from Grandpa and Grandma Gall in the evening. On the 6th, her little friend from church, Amara, came over for cupcakes and presents and playtime. Of course, I had to take some pictures of the occasion!

Happy Birthday, Fairy Princess!

New School Teaches Age-Old Subjects

2008-10-07T18:35:00.000-05:00

This article appeared yesterday in the Minneapolis Star Tribune, and I was interested and delighted by the description of a tiny, local private school that is in its very first semester. Chesterton Academy is a Catholic high school that subscribes to classical education, something that is dear to our hearts (and of course Rich has personal experience with classical teaching from both sides of the lectern). The article uses words like "education revolution," "counterculture" and "avant-garde" in describing the academic philosophy and methods of Chesterton Academy, and frequently quotes the school's headmaster, John DeJak, who says modern education deprives students of the "heritage" of the "3,000-year-old body of education" that once was commonly taught in school.

The greatest flaw of modern education is that it is based on a succession of fads...As a result, our young people may be "eco-aware" or have great self-esteem, but they can't explain the passions that sparked the Civil War or why "David Copperfield" is a great novel.

DeJak points out another great flaw of modern schools, which is the teaching of moral relativism. The article quotes him as saying, "We believe that there is a larger truth, which every other truth relates to -- and that is God. For us, education is not just about job training, but about seeking the truth and training the soul."

Sounds like a great philosophy of education to me! It's encouraging to see the resurgence of classical education, with real discipline and training of the mind -- and soul, when coupled with a biblical foundation. The age-old disciplines of critical thinking, logic and rhetoric are such important tools, useful not only for intellectual development, but in a Christian context helpful in combating the relativistic philosophies of our culture. As Chesterton Academy joins the growing number of small classical schools throughout the country, I hope it achieves its goals and truly produces a counterculture of students who are serious about their education and about "seeking the truth and training the soul."

More Pictures

2008-09-30T15:59:00.001-05:00

I've been enjoying using the sling with Eleanor. She's the perfect little bundle! I've noticed the baby sling is becoming culturally popular, too, the mode of choice for moms to tote around their infants. I suppose with celebrities using them, slings have become a sort of fashion statement like any other clothing trend driven by Hollywood. Popular or not, the sling is handy and fairly comfortable, so I'm happy to use it! And Eleanor in her sling is certainly more priceless than a Gucci tote or a Prada purse! :)

A couple good "sisters" photos. I think there's a resemblance between the girls!

Zander loves the opportunity to hold Eleanor!

She's Here!

2008-09-20T11:31:00.000-05:00

We are excited to welcome Eleanor Gloria to our family! Little Ellie was born September 18, about 8:45 pm. She was 7 lbs, 15 oz, and 20 3/4 inches long. She has thick black hair like her sibs had! She's a good eater and a good sleeper, and entirely kissable. We're enjoying her so much!

Waiting

2008-09-14T12:55:00.000-05:00

It is hard at this stage not to grow impatient. The baby is due on Saturday, and of course there is the possibility of going early or late. Feeling heavier and more tired than last time around, I sincerely hope this little one comes early! But I'm trying to give the birth and its timing over to the Lord - I trust He knows what is best for me!

Meanwhile, with the ebbing energy I possess, I am in full nesting mode. Which translates into keeping on top of things the best I can, keeping things tidy! Hey, is that a blob of food on the floor? Excuse me, dirty socks go down the laundry chute. Ugh, the dishwasher has to be unloaded again. Yikes! I really have to make sure tidiness doesn't become too important! Spending time with the kiddos is more important, as well as getting rest. I fear, however, that some days I depend too much on children's DVDs!

Even Rich jokes that he is experiencing sympathetic nesting, having dedicated an entire day to organizing the garage and the basement, which were hardly touched since moving in at the end of June. He does appreciate order and organization, though, and ticking off tasks on a to-do list is probably both energizing and therapeutic to a businessman with clients and sales on the brain. At any rate, I certainly appreciate all his recent efforts! He was like Hercules, Mr. T, and Detective Monk rolled into one!

Anyway, it is the time for preparation, the time for waiting. I have a stack of books to enjoy now and during the upcoming recovery, which includes some Hemingway and Tolkien in addition to a couple mysteries. That is a pleasurable way to pass the time, and I enjoy the mental stimulation and the distraction from waiting. Waiting... Waiting...

All the Nations

2008-08-13T15:43:00.000-05:00

I've enjoyed catching some of the Olympics on TV. I've seen the triumphs of Michael Phelps, been amazed at the physical strength and grace of the gymnasts, and even moderately enjoyed some of the beach volleyball, to which I have never given second thought before. Seeing all the athletes from various nations come together to compete is a cool thing. Even though it is for self-glorifying (or at best, country-glorifying) purposes, it still brings to mind the thought that one day all the nations will come together and be unified under the banner of the Sovereign Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. What a great day that will be, when all that we do will be to His glory!

Summer Fun for Less

2008-07-30T14:45:00.000-05:00

One of the best $5 investments I ever made: our green kiddie pool from Walmart. The kids love it, and even I've sat in it with them on hot afternoons. Add to it the Little Tikes slide and a sprinkler, and you've got your own mini water park. A great way to keep cool in the summer!

Photos, finally!

2008-07-25T17:19:00.000-05:00

We have been digital-camera-less for several months, but Rich was fortunate enough to win one by raffle recently! (Say that 10 times fast.) So I clicked a few pictures of our new house, to give you some highlights of the interior and exterior. Enjoy!

front view

back view

I am very delighted with the perennial gardens in the front and back yards!

A few living room shots. Still looking for curtains!

(Note the sleeping child. Life is hard work!)

Rich got me this piano for my birthday!

I love how much light the kitchen gets!

Our room. Mostly I just want to show off the new green color. Before, the room was completely white. But Rich did a fabulous painting job.

I regret to say the kids' room is rarely this orderly. Of course, I didn't get the overflowing toy boxes in the shot.

Last but not least, a shot of our library, which also functions as office/computer/movie room.

From New Quarters...

2008-07-04T20:21:00.001-05:00

Happy Independence Day!

We're hosting our first "gathering" at our new house - just a cookout with our families (both of whom live in the area), but it's fun getting ready to have people over to see the progress after nearly one week in the house. The main floor is nearly settled; some pictures remain, as well as choosing new curtains for the living room, which is a task I look forward to. Our room looks cozy with a new coat of forest green paint, which provides a warm, pleasant contrast to the light finish of the woodwork and floor. I had a lot of fun organizing the kitchen, too, choosing a place for everything and adding touches of color with the window valances and framed paintings. The major task remaining is organizing all the books on the shelves. Right now they are stacked in a haphazard fashion all over the small bedroom that has become the "library/office." Being a bit fastidious when it comes to book organization, we will eventually sort them out categorically and then alphabetically, with the spines all even.

The children are adjusting well to the new house. They haven't asked about the old one; I guess home to them is where mommy and daddy and their familiar things are. I'm glad they adapt so easily! Lord willing, however, we will live in this house for a good many years. Rich's grandparents built the house, and his mom grew up here. I hope the house can remain in the family for future generations, too - that would be so cool! Imagine being able to say, "I live in the house my great-great-(great!) -grandparents built."

Time for an Update

2008-06-24T20:55:00.000-05:00

Well, for a long time there was nothing of interest to relate, hence my scandalous neglect of this blog. Now I am almost too busy to type a few lines! But something of an update is in order, so here's what's going on with the Galls lately.

Last week we enjoyed some R&R at a small, scenic lake a few hours north of us in Minnesota. My family obtained a cabin (really a large, comfortable house) on Blue Lake for three weeks, and we got to join them for part of that time. The kids and I drove up last Tuesday, returning Monday morning, and Rich came up Friday through Sunday. We enjoyed gorgeous weather, lots of swimming, fishing and boating, good meals, naps, reading... all the activities that mark a relaxing getaway. It was particularly nice for me to have regular adult interaction, as well as extra eyes to watch the kids so I could enjoy a little "me" time (which usually translated into nap time, or possibly curling up with an Agatha Christie). Zander and Livy probably each grew an inch, they spent so much time in the water and fresh air, running around, eating big meals, and (generally) sleeping hard at night. I feared they would suffer withdrawal symptoms upon returning to regular existence, but so far they have remained fairly cheerful...! Rich enjoyed the brief vacation, too, reveling in the opportunity to fish, nap, read, play with the kids, and smoke a cigar while sitting with his feet in the lake and watching the clouds drift overhead.

So now we're home again, home again, jiggety jig... and yet life is not completely normal, because on Saturday we are MOVING to our new house! We bought our very first house -- yes, we are homeowners now. We have joined the great throng of mortgage holders. The house we currently live in belongs to Rich's paternal grandpa; the house we have just purchased was the home of Rich's other grandparents, both of whom passed away in the last seven months. We love the house, and are honored to have it. It holds many memories for many people, and now we will begin to shape new memories and traditions within its walls.

Rich is doing some painting there this week while I concern myself with packing and trying to maintain some form of order and schedule amidst the chaos. The children are handling the upheaval very well, and Zander keeps asking when he gets to sleep in his new bed at the new house. That is a good sign. I hope he continues to be enthusiastic about the change of dwelling. It certainly helps that he has a built-in playmate -- next door to the new house lives a lovely family with two young boys and a huge sandbox and swing set. Now we just have to make Zander realize that he can't skip next door just whenever he likes! (Not a public park, my son.) But the neighbors are really generous with sharing their toys, so that is a blessing.

That sums up the big happenings in the life of the Galls. We are thankful for the Lord's bountiful provision and many blessings. Next time I write, we shall be settling into our new, very own house!

Easter Pics

2008-04-08T14:50:00.001-05:00

I Always Love a White Holiday

2008-03-22T15:18:00.000-05:00

"I'm dreaming of a white Easter, just like the ones I--" Hmm. Not quite the same.

Just in time for the most important Christian holiday, a heavy blanket of snow here in Minnesota. It's quite beautiful, really, the way it coats the tree branches and disguises crusty, sand-ridden ice patches on the lawns. But come mid-to-late-March, snow rather starts to overstay its welcome around here. Unfortunately, it's quite common to have snowstorms up until April; just unusual to have this much snow on the ground for Easter!

That's okay. It's a beautiful reminder of what Christ has done for us through His death and resurrection: He has washed us and made us whiter than snow.

And it made for fun family time this morning with snowballs and snow angels!

Winter Snapshots

2008-03-15T21:26:00.000-05:00

Spreading the Word

2008-03-12T18:27:00.000-05:00

I'm sure most of my friends know by now (through word-of-mouth or that excellent tool, Facebook) that we are expecting baby number 3! Due date not exact yet, but roughly around September 23. Looking forward to a new little brother or sister for the kids!

2008-01-31T15:20:00.000-06:00

Olivia is walking all over the place now! She's so much fun.

Zander loves his Memory game! He's very good at it.

FYI

2008-01-31T15:17:00.000-06:00

I finally posted something on my book blog! Just a summary of a few books I've read recently. Click the link in the sidebar.

New Year's Resolutions

2008-01-01T11:51:00.000-06:00

Are "resolutions" biblical? Well, nothing wrong with viewing January 1st as a fresh start -- indeed, the Lord's mercies are new every morning! But as I contemplate and set goals for myself for 2008, I remember that I can do nothing apart from Christ; however, I can "do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

So while I can't gin up my own strength to meet health and fitness goals, I trust that the Spirit will produce in me the fruit of self-control. When I struggle with overcoming habitual sins, I remember that "His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness." When I want to improve in good character qualities, and be a better wife, mother, and friend, and be a more obedient Christian, I know I must rest in the power of the Holy Spirit and God's holy Word.

"Self-Improvement" is a deception and fraud, and quite simply impossible. "I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing."

"But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ!" I can't self-improve, but I can be an obedient Christian, and trust that God will carry on to completion the good work he began in me.

Happy New Year!

2008-01-01T11:45:00.000-06:00

This hymn is commonly sung, I believe, this time of year, and it certainly echoes my own prayer as we move into 2008.

May the mind of Christ, my Savior,
Live in me from day to day,
By His love and power controlling
All I do and say.

May the Word of God dwell richly
In my heart from hour to hour,
So that all may see I triumph
Only through His power.

May the peace of God my Father
Rule my life in everything,
That I may be calm to comfort
Sick and sorrowing.

May the love of Jesus fill me
As the waters fill the sea;
Him exalting, self abasing,
This is victory.

May I run the race before me,
Strong and brave to face the foe,
Looking only unto Jesus
As I onward go.

May His beauty rest upon me,
As I seek the lost to win,
And may they forget the channel,
Seeing only Him.

Children's Books for the Season

2007-12-11T18:26:00.000-06:00

Here are some of our favorite Christmas/winter books. They all have cute stories and great illustrations.

The Night Before Christmas, illus. by Jan Brett. There are plenty of versions of this classic poem, but I like the detail and whimsy of Brett's illustrations, and the folksy Scandinavian look. Other fun "winter" books of hers include The Mitten, The Hat, and Gingerbread Baby.
Carl's Christmas, by Alexandra Day
A Small Miracle, by Peter Collington
Peter Spier's Christmas, by Peter Spier
The Legend of the Candy Cane, by Lori Walburg
The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey, by Susan Wojciechowski

Even Warriors Need Their Rest

2007-12-11T18:24:00.000-06:00

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

2007-12-06T11:07:00.000-06:00

The Christmas season is off to a festive start in the Twin Cities, with today's snowfall being the third one in less than a week, bringing the accumulation of powdery snow to seven or eight inches. We've already enjoyed some sledding and the making of snow angels; Zander especially loves playing outside! Our tree is decorated, and I created a lovely mantlepiece decoration of pine boughs, red beads, and white lights. This is one of my favorite times of the year, and I love getting into the spirit of things.

Now that I have children, I'm interested in creating meaningful traditions, as well: ones that will point the kids to Christ and the wonder of the Incarnation, and some to create warm fuzzies for them to cherish in years to come, too. Sentimentalism runs in my family, and I must admit I want my kids to enjoy the same cozy glee that springs from seeing the twinkling lights, smelling fresh-baked cookies, and listening to the joyous strains of "Hark, the Herald Angels Sing!" and "O Come, All Ye Faithful." But most of all I want them to grow up associating this time of year with a reverential focus on the astounding fact that "the Word became flesh and dwelt among us."

So what traditions will be fun and helpful in the years to come? How can we look beyond ourselves during this time of year to minister to the needs of others? What will create a lasting gratitude and reverence for Christ becoming man? These are questions that I will be pondering, and I would certainly enjoy getting feedback from others, too!

Counting Our Blessings

2007-11-25T21:18:00.000-06:00

Thanksgiving week was filled with lots of great food, numerous family and friends, a little extra sleep, and Rich's 31st birthday, on November 22, Thanksgiving Day. Happy Birthday, honey! We're thankful for you! Love, Alaina and Alexander & Olivia

In Loving Memory

2007-11-18T10:59:00.000-06:00

Rich's grandma passed away last Tuesday, and her funeral took place yesterday. It was a traditional Lutheran service, and Rich's mom presented a memorable tribute and eulogy of her mother at the start, which brought laughter with the tears as she described the witty, loving, sometimes feisty lady we all knew so well.

Grandma and Grandpa Roelofs were married for 67 years (!), and they leave the family a great legacy of faithful devotion. Grandma particularly was a shining example of a wife who honored and supported her husband, through good times and bad, and she was a mother and grandmother who doted on her children and grandchildren, and loved to see her family having a fun time. I've heard many stories of the annual Father's Day water fight, held at Grandpa and Grandma's for many years, involving a majority of the cousins and aunts and uncles. The fight seemed to be every man for himself, but often the young men ganged up on their mothers, escalating from water balloons dropped from the roof, to full water coolers tossed through windows!

Rich and his siblings spent a lot of time with their grandparents while growing up, and they have lots of fond memories of their grandma; and though being so close to them means a deeper sadness at Grandma's passing, I know they wouldn't trade all those precious times for anything.

We are thankful for Grandpa and Grandma, and rejoice that Grandma is now with Jesus. But it will be a difficult time for Grandpa, now, who is terribly lonesome for his wife of 67 years. We're praying that he will cling to the Lord in this time and wait patiently and trustfully until the day he is reunited with Grandma.

As Thanksgiving approaches, we especially give thanks for God's promise: "We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life. If we have been united with him like this in his death, we will certainly also be united with him in his resurrection" (Rom. 6:4-5). Praise the Lord that He is faithful in this life and in the life to come!

Happy Birthday, Alexander!

2007-11-06T12:53:00.001-06:00

We love you, 3-year-old!

Mommy Makeover: the Next Thing in Self-Glorification

2007-10-29T11:40:00.000-05:00

Some folks might take umbrage at the following generalization, but I don’t think I’m too far off the mark: Americans are a selfish, self-centered people. We have created a culture that extols the individual and caters to the self-obsessed. Our watchwords are “self-awareness,” “self-actualization,” “self-esteem.” The term “self-denial” is usually associated with dieting; and “self-discipline,” rather than a fostering of good character in line with Scripture, typically refers to fitness regimens – means to making our “selves” more attractive.

This self-centeredness assumes many forms, but a particular illustration cropped up as the subject of a recent article in our newspaper: the “mommy makeover.” It rises from two cultural attitudes that I believe trace back to a general self-centeredness (and ye olde sin nature): obsession with physical beauty (Hollywood’s standard) and the disparagement of motherhood and child-rearing.

Basically, the mommy makeover is plastic surgery to remove the effects of pregnancy and childbirth from a woman’s body: sagging breasts, stretch marks, cellulite, etc.

The article was of interest to me, because I myself am tempted to buy into worldly standards of success, and I could see the pull they have on others – and the lengths some women will go to maintain the standards and mindsets pushed by a celebrity-conscious culture. The issue is well-put:

“In 1970, ‘Our Bodies, Ourselves,’ the seminal guide to women's health, described the cosmetic changes that can happen during and after pregnancy simply as phenomena. But now, narrowing beauty norms are recasting the transformations of motherhood as stigma. These unforgiving standards are the offspring of pop culture and technology, a union that treats biological changes as if they were as optional as hair color…

“Many women struggle with the impact of aging and pregnancy on their bodies. But the marketing of the ‘mommy makeover’ seeks to pathologize the postpartum body, characterizing pregnancy and childbirth as maladies with disfiguring aftereffects that can be repaired with the help of scalpels and cannulae.

“ ‘The message is that, after having children, women's bodies change for the worse,’ said Diana Zuckerman, president of the National Research Center for Women and Families, a nonprofit group in Washington. If marketing could turn the postpregnancy body ‘into a socially unacceptable thing, think of how big your audience would be and how many surgeries you could sell them,’ she said.”

I realize that a majority of women wouldn’t feel the need to undergo this procedure; but it’s not the surgery that bothers me, extreme measure that it may be. It’s the attitude behind it, one that disparages pregnancy and motherhood, and deems a woman “less sexy” or beautiful after bearing a child. It places a shallow standard of beauty above the honor and blessing of being a mother. And it’s a strong mindset in our culture, too—not only nonbelievers, but Christians such as myself feel the pressure to look a certain way and feel bad about what pregnancy does to our bodies.

We need to remember the truth of the matter; the real standard set by God’s word. "Children are a heritage from the Lord; the fruit of the womb is a reward" (Ps. 127:3). We need to revel in this truth and not give in to the self-centered standards of this culture.

Out of the Mouths...

2007-10-29T11:36:00.000-05:00

Alexander, upon grasping a Q-tip: "I have to get the boogers out of my ears, Mommy."

Jack O' Lantern

2007-10-26T10:58:00.000-05:00

Rich and Zander had fun working on this together! (Zander had fun scooping out the pulp.)

Ring Bearer 0 for 1; but Still a Great Wedding

2007-10-23T11:12:00.000-05:00

October 6 was Andy and Sara's wedding (Andy is Rich's next younger brother), and it was a beautiful occasion. Lots of family members were in the wedding party, including Rich as best man and Zander as the ring bearer (they looked so handsome in their tuxes!). The ceremony was very nice - good music (piano, violin, cello; and a trumpet for a couple of the pieces), good message from Philippians 2, lovely wedding party. Sara looked gorgeous in her 194os retro gown! I was a bit distracted, however; nervous about the antics of my 2-year-old. He did OK during the rehearsal; he was a bit shy at first, but eventually seemed to understand his role as the ring bearer, and his performance on Saturday looked promising.

However, when the real event took place - I think Alexander was intimidated (understandably) by all those strange faces turned toward him when it was his turn to go down the aisle. He became rooted to the spot, and eventually dropped to the floor and hunched over in a little ball, hiding his face. Not even his mother's coaxing from the front row or the earlier promise of gummy bears would induce him to go down that aisle!

Everyone thought it was quite cute and funny, and chuckles increased amidst the pews as Rich broke ranks up front and strode up to Alexander, swinging him up onto his shoulder and carrying him down to the front. I was torn between laughter and embarrassment, but I realized it's these funny little episodes that make weddings memorable. And Andy, standing in his place up front, was laughing, too, so I was relieved that he wasn't annoyed about it.

Alexander stood momentarily by the groomsmen, then came to sit with Grandma and me, accepting the proffered gummy bears. He showed signs of restlessness during the ceremony, which distracted me from hearing all the message; but he managed to make it all the way through without a meltdown, which was good considering his age and how long the afternoon was for him (they'd shot all the pictures before the wedding).

Following the ceremony, the reception was held at the local armory. There was great music - a live swing band, which played music from the Big Band era. After people got a chance to eat, the bride and groom danced to Moon River, and then several couples, including Rich and me, started swing dancing to some of the livelier tunes. It was a lot of fun!

It was a fun occasion, and I think everyone had a great time. I hope the bride and groom were blessed by the spirit of celebration we all felt!

Wedding Pictures

2007-10-23T09:50:00.000-05:00

Andy and Sara with Grandpa Gall

the bride and groom - so romantic!

At the reception; Olivia is dressed down during the eating part!

my sister Charis, Mom and me

Rich's sisters Kelly and Anna

Rich's youngest brother Tom, with Anna

my brother Ben with Andy; Ben was the music coordinator and a musician

my brother Dawson with Zander

tired out :)

Ben's girlfriend Jenny, with Olivia

Charis and her boyfriend Roni

Ben and Jenny

I'm hoping to get my hands on some of the formal pictures, too, because the whole family and the wedding party looked so nice! (And I need some pictures of the parents and grandparents!)

Hey There

2007-10-18T12:51:00.000-05:00

Sometimes we listen to the local pop/rock stations in the car, when we want a break from classical music. Not long ago, the song of the hour was "Hey There, Delilah," a catchy song with pleasant acoustic guitar accompaniment. It's nice to listen to, but it was on the radio all the time. I just recently realized how often we've heard that song (and how often we must have been listening to KS95). While fixing lunch one day, I started singing the bits of "Delilah" that I knew, and humming through the lyrics I didn't know. Then came the chorus. Before I knew it, my sweet, innocent, 2-year-old son raised his plaintive voice and sang in perfect key, "Oohh, it's what you do to meee, Oohh, it's what you do to me!"

Apple Picking

2007-10-15T15:19:00.000-05:00

In the string of overcast, cold, drizzly days that has draped the Twin Cities for over a week, Saturday was the one sunshiny gem. Its blue sky beckoned and fresh air tantalized, and stir-crazy youngsters and parents alike rejoiced to step out into the sunshine. Our family took advantage of the beautiful weather by visiting an apple orchard with some friends. It was an hour drive west into rural farmland, and we enjoyed the gorgeous autumn colors: gold and bronze cottonwood and oak rising above grassy hillsides accented with red sumac.

The apple orchard had a straw bale fort for climbing and a small petting zoo consisting of rabbits, goats and chickens. Zander and Olivia especially enjoyed feeding the goats. We took a tractor-wagon ride through the orchard; many times we were so close to the heavily-laden trees we had to duck the branches as we trundled along.

It was refreshing to walk amidst the trees, enjoying the sight, smell, and taste of the apples. Even Zander and Livy munched their own apples as we meandered along. We picked Fireside, Regent and Haralson apples, about ten pounds total, and now have plenty for snacking as well as some to make a pie. There's nothing like the crisp, tart flavor of a fresh autumn apple!

The trip to the orchard was the perfect way to enjoy a beautiful fall day. It's those special family excursions that I hope will become a fun learning experience and a sweet memory for our children.

Happy Birthday, Olivia!

2007-10-05T12:52:00.001-05:00

You're one year old, little precious, and we're so glad you're part of our family. We love you!

Olivia's Birthday Party

2007-10-05T12:43:00.000-05:00

I threw a little party for Olivia on Wednesday, inviting three of my friends and their little daughters. It was a fun couple hours of cupcakes, balloons, new toys, and taking advantage of the lovely weather by playing at a nearby park for a while. Of course I had to take some pictures!

Almost time for wedding bells...

2007-10-04T19:38:00.000-05:00

Rich's brother Andy is getting married on Saturday, and since Rich and Zander are both in the wedding party, all the events surrounding the groom's dinner and wedding are foremost in our thoughts of late. Rich has the day off tomorrow so he can be available to help Andy in whatever capacity is necessary, and I'm lending a hand to my mother-in-law, Pam, who is of course responsible for the dinner following the rehearsal tomorrow. Although we have to keep the logistics in mind, we're still excited about the festivities and the joyous celebration of this new Christian marriage.

Plus, Olivia and I each have a new dress to wear to the wedding. :) And Zander will look so cute (and Rich very handsome!) in a black tuxedo. I'll be sure to get some pictures to post here after this weekend.

Autumn Colors

2007-10-03T10:38:00.000-05:00

My cell phone camera isn't the best way to capture fall's colors, but I had to take a few pictures of the maples that have burst into "flame" throughout the neighborhood. The changing of the leaves is one of my favorite aspects of autumn; especially on those days when the sunlight shines through the bright yellows and reds, and behind all that fiery color is a background of clear azure or cerulean blue sky.

Sign of the Times

2007-10-03T10:34:00.000-05:00

While flipping through the children's softcover books at our library the other day, I noticed one with pleasant, colorful illustrations. The title: Mama and Daddy Bear Get a Divorce.

It made me sad.

We love our Cuties!

2007-09-29T22:14:00.000-05:00

A bit saucy (but not sauced)

2007-09-29T15:42:00.000-05:00

I enjoy experimenting in the kitchen from time to time, and the other night I discovered a tasty sauce for stir-fried vegetables.

2 Tbsp soy sauce
1 clove garlic, minced
1/2 tsp ground ginger
1 tsp parsley
a pinch of crushed red pepper

Combine ingredients, let sit together at least 1/2 hour. Stir-fry 6-8 cups fresh vegetables of choice in a wok, using 3-4 Tbsp olive oil. Stir in soy sauce mixture a couple minutes before the veggies are done. Serve over rice.

All's Well That Ends Well

2007-09-25T10:09:00.000-05:00

I enjoy seasonal decorating, and a centerpiece of pumpkins and candles is a good way to celebrate the start of autumn. Zander was very excited about the pumpkins, too. When I told him we were going to get some pumpkins, he couldn't stop talking about it. "We're getting punkins, right Mommy?"

It became quite a little adventure. On a walk earlier this month, we passed a yard in a nearby neighborhood that had a lovely display of tasseled corn stalks, pumpkins of various shapes and sizes, squash, and gourds. There were dozens of pumpkins, and they all were for sale. I told Zander we should buy some, and about a week later we walked over one breezy afternoon and chose a couple pumpkins of superior shape and unblemished shiny orangeness, together with a mini pumpkin and gourds. These little ones particularly appealed to Zander and Livy, who cradled them in their laps on the way home.

Unfortunately, as I was lifting the pumpkins to load them into the basket of the stroller, I misstepped on the steep grass bank and twisted my ankle pretty badly. I gasped and hopped about for a few moments, then gingerly walked a few steps. It was sore, but I could still walk. Anyhow, I had to walk; we were almost a mile from home, and gray clouds were gathering overhead as the wind began to pick up.

After paying for the pumpkins, I loaded up the kids and headed down the sidewalk as fast as I could, limping only slightly. The clouds darkened. Thunder rumbled. Flashes of lightning lit the clouds from within. So there I was, with a stroller full of "li'l pumpkins", a bum ankle, a storm brewing overhead, and ten blocks to go. Needless to say, I ignored my discomfort and hoofed it home, tumbling us all into the house moments before the skies opened up.

And so the kids had their pumpkins, and enjoyed rolling them around the living room carpet, while I sat on the couch and iced my foot. And that was our adventure of fetching pumpkins.

Hear, Hear!

2007-09-07T10:23:00.000-05:00

My friend Jennifer forwarded this article to me on parenting. I read it with many chuckles and the the thought, "Right on!"

Silver bells and cockle shells

2007-08-27T11:03:00.000-05:00

I found some large rocks the other day while out on a walk, and I put them to good use around a little flower bed that I created under the trellis beside the patio. I liked how it looked with the rocks, so I took a few pictures.

Fun at the Fair

2007-08-27T10:33:00.000-05:00

Last Friday the kids and I joined my two sisters for a few hours at the State Fair. We had a good time, although it was very crowded and sometimes difficult to maneuver the strollers through the crowds.

Highlights:

animal barns (Zander was amazed at how large cows are in real life)
midway and kiddie midway (very noisy! Zander rode a kiddie train ride)
food (favorites included corn dog, milk shake, mini donuts)
people watching (Over a million visitors come to our state fair annually. All types of people, from 4-H families to spiky-haired teens to tattooed biker dudes.)
lots of exercise, sunshine and fresh air (makes for good sleeping!)
live music (Livy loves it when I dance with her)

So we survived the experience, although the kids got rather tired and cranky before we reached home. Nevertheless, it's one of those summer traditions I really enjoy, and I hope we can create some good memories with the kids in the years to come.

Thank You, Thank You Very Much

2007-08-23T09:58:00.000-05:00

So last Saturday was a very unique shopping experience at the grocery store. Apparently the Minnesota Lottery has been holding an Elvis/Vegas-style show tour to promote its scratch games. (I hadn't heard of it before; I'm shockingly ignorant of such great events happening in my own state.) Well, St. Paul was one of the final cities in the tour, and the promotional troupe set up their tables, pamphlets, sound system, and lotto games in the Cub Foods grocery store where I shop regularly. Two Elvis impersonators (yeah, two) and several Vegas showgirls were there, too, doing musical numbers and schmoozing with customers, and scurrying around were people in navy shirts variously carrying clipboards, cameras, and video cameras, documenting all the hoopla and joy surrounding the Minnesota lottery.

I cast the group a look of interest and a grin, then dismissed it all from my mind and continued with shopping. I was not to get through unscathed, however, for as I steered my laden cart toward the registers, I passed through the midst of mingled customers, entertainers, cameraman and lackeys. The aisle was clogged and I halted.

"What? No bananas?" Elvis exclaimed at my shoulder. "I like bananas." He peered into my cart again. "I see you have have buns, though. I like your buns." He gave me a twinkle, and I shook my head and laughed to play along. All the while the cameraman was circling like a vulture, capturing this charming conversation between Elvis and a devoted admirer (of both Elvis and the Minnesota lottery, apparently).

Elvis chatted with me a minute longer, throwing smiles at the camera. "Ain't she cute? I like this little lady." But he seemed nice enough, even though he teased a bit. I tried to be nonchalant, like I conversed regularly with 60-year-old men dressed in white, bejeweled jumpsuits. Finally I had to move on; family and chores awaited me at home. "Go ahead, don't let me keep you!" Elvis said jovially.

As I moved (with some relief) off to the checkout, a young woman with a clipboard stopped me. She needed my signature in case they used any of the video or photographs on the lotto website. Sure, why not. As it turned out, none of the video was posted, but apparently Elvis and I were captured in a photo, and that was put up on the website the following Monday. So there I am, for all to see, with "Elvis"! (The caption was pretty funny, too - definitely promotional: "Elvis freshens a shopper's morning with a song and a Las Vegas Scratch Game.")

More Laughs

2007-08-15T11:39:00.001-05:00

Star in Your Own JibJab! It's Free!

Spending my time well

2007-08-15T11:21:00.001-05:00

Star in Your Own JibJab! It's Free!Didn't know I was such a good dancer, eh? (Along with my sister.)

It's Official

2007-08-08T10:39:00.000-05:00

Olivia's first words (right about the time she turned 10 months) were "Daddy" and "Zander (Danda)."

Vacation

2007-08-08T10:18:00.000-05:00

All last week our family was at a scenic lake resort in Alexandria, Minn. We shared a cabin with Rich's family, and enjoyed a generally relaxing week filled with swimming, boating, fishing, outside games, a bit of TV, and reading on the porch swing overlooking the lake while drinking fresh coffee (my favorite!). The kids had a blast; they loved the water, and Alexander made friends with some other young kids staying at the resort, and spent hours playing with them at the small playground and sandbox. It was a lovely time just hanging out with family and having a different (relaxing and leisurely!) routine. No urgent phone calls or emails, and no schedule, beyond eat, play, eat, swim, nap, eat, play, sleep...

A Magical Ending

2007-07-26T15:13:00.000-05:00

I finished the final Harry Potter book. A great conclusion to a fun series!

(From my book blog:)

Reasons I enjoy Harry Potter:

Exciting story
Imaginative
Good writing
Consistent, believable character arcs
Brilliant allusions to classic mythology
Excellent use of story archtypes
Importance placed on the names of people and objects

Birthday Fun!

2007-07-26T14:54:00.000-05:00

Photo (l-r): Kelly, me, Sarah, Charis.

My sister Charis, sister-in-law Kelly, and friend Sarah helped me celebrate my birthday on the 19th (I'm 26 now!). We played Imaginiff, a great board game to play with good friends, and enjoyed wine coolers and chocolate-dipped strawberries and pretzels. Later in the evening, we got dressed up and went out swing dancing. (Rich unfortunately had to stay home with the sleeping kids.) It was a great girls night out and a fun birthday celebration. But the partying didn't end there. Next day, the kids and I joined my family in visiting a local Pioneer/Dakotah museum, and that evening Rich joined us at my family's for dinner (shredded beef sandwiches, I love them!) and games out in the yard. A very pleasant family party. (Birthday celebrations have always been important in my family!)

Siblings are Great

2007-07-17T11:56:00.000-05:00

It's fun to see how Alexander and Olivia are becoming playmates. Now that Livy can crawl, she loves following Zander around, and though sometimes she gets in his way or takes his toys, most of the time he gets a kick out of entertaining her. Now we just need to convince Zander not to head-butt Olivia anymore...

Camping Journal

2007-07-13T19:49:00.000-05:00

July 10
The kids and I joined my family for a 2-night camping trip. We met at their house, and loaded all our gear in their minivan. Along with all their supplies, it made an impressive mountain of food and equipment. Then while my mom drove the gear and my young ones over to the campground (in a regional park about five miles from my family's house), my dad and I and my three youngest siblings rode bikes there. I really enjoyed the ride. There was a variety of scenery along our route, from suburban neighborhoods to marshlands, to woods and a golf course.

Our campsite is large, and well-kept, like the entire campground. In fact we have the whole "F Loop" section of the campground to ourselves save for one other tenter. The benefits of camping in the middle of the week!

After setting up the two tents and eating a quick lunch, we went over to the beach and playground. Of course Zander and Livy had a great time in the sand! We did some biking and walking around the park as well, and worked up hearty appetites for the pizza pockets we made in sandwich irons over the fire at suppertime. The evening activities included more outdoor play and singing, stories, and s'mores around the fire. Can't get much better than that!

Unfortunately, the evening was marred a bit by an unwelcome intruder. It was dark as we sat around the fire. The stars were brilliant above us. A rustling in the long grasses edging the campsite alerted us to a visitor, and mostly out of curiosity we shone the flashlight at it--and froze as a skunk meandered into the circle near our tents. We quietly moved in the opposite direction, standing near the road, keeping the light trained on the creature, and rather helplessly watched it pull over the bag of trash and begin rooting through it. The skunk was in no hurry, but like a connoisseur of leftovers, picked over the scraps with a leisurely air. Finally it settled on a watermelon rind and dragged it to the edge of the campsite, near the tents, to enjoy his find.

So here we were, exiled from our tents because of a skunk. We didn't want to hang out in the dark all night, being eaten by mosquitoes, but how long was this skunk going to take? We certainly didn't want to risk coming under fire, but we didn't want to encourage it to hang around. So while we kept the light on the skunk, Mom and Dad slowly and carefully crept around the campsite, gathering up the garbage and leftover food and stowing it in the van. After about a half hour of keeping nervous watch, our little striped friend finally meandered back into the brush, and we heard him rustle away, until he was gone.

Whew! Exciting end to a fun day!

July 11
Dad cooked breakfast this morning. It was lovely to climb out of the tent (somewhat stiff and groggy after a night made restless by checking that the kids were warm enough and the occasional suspicion that a Daddy-Long-Legs was climbing in one's hair), into the morning sunshine, and see the fire crackling and a pot of French-press coffee waiting. We ate eggs and bacon and hashbrowns, and were so stuffed we were certain we wouldn't be hungry for lunch.

But a morning filled with more biking, swimming, sandcastle-making, playground tag, reading, and card games, ensured we were hungry for those juicy hamburgers.

In the evening we cleaned up and drove to my family's church to attend a spaghetti dinner fund-raiser for the summer missions trip. My sister Charis is one of the trip leaders, and she coordinated the dinner, overseeing all the students who are going on the trip, and who cooked and served the meal. They did a nice job, and it was fun to sit down at tables decorated with red and white tablecloths and wine bottled holding dripping candles. Red, green and white crepe-paper garlands festooned the walls, and Andrei Bocelli serenaded in the background. The food turned out well, too: salad, bread, spaghetti with meatballs, and ice cream with chocolate sauce. During the course of the evening there was a silent auction, too, of the students who were auctioning off five hours each of "slave labor." The final bids were done out loud at the end of the meal, and there was much laughter and good-natured rivalry as the adults bid for the opportunity to order the teens around. :)

There was a glorious sunset this evening: fiery orange and pink, with lavender clouds. We returned to the campsite and wrapped up the evening with singing and stories around the campfire.

July 12
Our final day. Dad cooked breakfast again, pancakes with blueberries. Olivia loved the pancakes! We had family worship, reading Psalm 19 and singing "All Creatures of Our God and King." My brother Ben had to leave after an early breakfast to attend summer classes, but he returned later on with his girlfriend, Jenny, to spend part of the day with us. Charis came for a while, too, and we enjoyed hanging out by the lake. After lunch, we variously enjoyed biking, napping, and playing cards, before packing up and loading the car. The kids and I biked back to the house, then, and that ride was as pleasant as the first.

Alexander, Olivia and I hung out for a while at the house; I was a bit reluctant to go home to the empty house without Rich. But, though a bit lonesome, it is nice after all to get home and water the yard and put things away, and sleep in our own beds!

Bitter Sweet Day

2007-07-08T20:05:00.000-05:00

Rich and I celebrated our anniversary a day early, going out for supper and enjoying the opportunity to focus on one another and really listen and converse without other distractions around us. Rich also bought me a beautiful bouquet of pink and white flowers including roses and Asian lilies. They're very fragrant and look lovely in a cut-glass vase on our table.

Unfortunately, today, our actual anniversary, Rich had to fly out to Boston. He is there until Friday for an insurance training seminar. I miss him already! And Zander asked about him a couple times, but now seems to understand that Daddy is gone for a while.

Luckily we'll have a nice distraction when we go camping with my family this week. I'm looking forward to that! But for now the house seems kinda empty.

Celebrating Seven Years

2007-07-08T20:01:00.000-05:00

Happy Anniversary, Rich! These seven years have been wonderful. I'm so thankful the Lord brought us together. I love you!